It's no secret, I'd tell my life to a stranger if he'd take the time to listen.
I talk too much sometimes, and reveal too much information, but now I'm wondering if it's a bad thing or not. I have friends who tell me everything, almost too much sometimes, but those are the friends I am closest with because they're opening up to me. Telling me who they are. They tell me things that lets me get to know them just-that-much-more. In sorority terms, it's a "bonding session."
I have friends who keep secrets as well. They never get too in depth with their life, and I only really know them on the surface. That is quite alright as well, but at what point do you deserve to learn a little more about a person?
I hatehatehatehate it when people say, "I can't tell you, it's a secret." Well SECRETS DON'T MAKE FRIENDS. What I hate even more is if someone I feel truly close to and connected with says that to me. If you love someone, why do you want to keep secrets? Can't you tell them anything?
I have a hard time sometimes understanding other peoples perspectives unless I've experienced it myself. I asked a friend about this, and my friend said "People are fragile and scared to get hurt."
So is it just a game? Or are you really scared to get hurt? Last time I checked I'm super fragile with a low pain tolerance, and I'm not scared to put myself out there. So why keep things from me for the purpose of simply keeping things from me. For the purpose of simply having a secret of your own. If it's really a true deep secret, you wouldn't even allude to it. "Well there was this one time, but I can't tell you because the rest is a secret."
It drives me insane. And the more I think about it, the more offended I get.